Kelly Tuttle - #16 - Apr 5, 2025
Overcoming Traumatic Brain Injury: Insights and Strategies with Kelly Tuttle
In this episode of the Neurostimulation podcast, host Michael sits down with Kelly Tuttle, an expert in traumatic brain injury (TBI) and author of 'After the Crash'. Kelly shares her personal journey through TBI, the challenges she faced, and the strategies that helped her heal. She provides valuable insights into symptoms like neuro fatigue, light and sound sensitivity, and the importance of holistic care involving sleep, nutrition, and mindfulness. Kelly also emphasizes the significance of journaling for symptom management and offers practical advice on how patients can advocate for their own recovery. Tune in to learn about her five pillars of recovery and hear inspiring messages of hope and resilience for anyone suffering from TBI.
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome
00:59 Kelly's Traumatic Brain Injury Journey
03:28 Challenges and Symptoms Post-Injury
04:36 Path to Recovery and New Career
05:29 Writing the Book: After the Crash
10:06 Strategies for Healing and Coping
13:11 The Importance of Sleep and Other Pillars of Recovery
15:27 Invisible Injuries and Social Impacts
19:53 Managing Specific TBI Symptoms
27:04 Holistic Approach to TBI Recovery
27:19 The Puzzle of Healing: Integrating Specialists
28:05 The Power of Journaling and Symptom Tracking
28:39 Stressless Medical Sheet: A Gift for Listeners
30:04 Maximizing Doctor Visits with Preparedness
31:47 Messages of Hope and Encouragement
34:14 The Role of Creativity in Healing
38:46 Managing Pain and Lifestyle Factors
42:36 The Importance of Sleep and Mental Health
44:06 Behavioral Aspects and Therapy
45:06 Where to Find More About Kelly Tuttle
Transcript
Welcome back to the Neurostimulation podcast.
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:I'm really excited today to have
a conversation with Kelly Tuttle.
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:Kelly is an expert in traumatic
brain injury, and she's written a
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:book called After the Crash that
chronicles her own journey and her
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:expertise in this very important area.
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:So Kelly, I wanted to
welcome you to the podcast.
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:I really appreciate you being
here, and I'm looking forward
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:to the conversation today.
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:Kelly: Michael, I'm excited to be here
and to get to speak to your listeners.
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:This is really great.
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:Thank you.
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:Mike: Thanks again.
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:So I was curious, can you share with us
some aspects of your personal journey
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:with traumatic brain injury and how that
has both impacted you, but also inspired
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:you to write a book and to help others?
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:Kelly: Sure.
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:So my story begins with a thunderous
clap of crunchy metal and shattering
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:of glass, the deployment of airbags.
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:I was in a car accident, a car
had pulled out in front of me
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:suddenly, and I t-boned them.
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:And even though my engine was smoking
and my car was totaled, I thought
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:I'd be able to shake it off the
car crash and go on with my life.
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:And in fact, I actually went to work
the next day and since I was a nurse
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:practitioner, I work with nurse
practitioners and nurses and they quickly
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:picked up on changes in my behavior
and my speech, and encouraged me to
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:see my primary provided the next day.
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:Which I did.
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:And I was diagnosed with a
concussion and taking off work
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:for a couple weeks and felt like I
should be better in a couple weeks.
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:And then three months later, I,
my symptoms are getting worse.
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:I actually end up falling asleep at
the wheel on the way home from work
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:and, doing so I mentioned that to
a colleague of mine who at the time
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:was a neurology nurse practitioner.
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:I was a cardiology nurse practitioner,
and she was curious to see how
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:I was doing with my concussion.
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:And I mentioned falling asleep at
the wheel, and she said that's not I.
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:A good thing.
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:And I she said I should see
a physical medicine and rehab
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:doctor and get a brain scan.
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:So I hadn't had any of that.
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:I hadn't had a brain scan very
little follow up from my general
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:practitioner and had not even had
a referral to a neurologist or the
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:physiatrist, which is the PMR doctor.
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:And once I saw the physical medicine
rehab doctor, she knew right away
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:that I had a serious brain injury,
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:Mike: a
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:Kelly: mild concussion isn't really mild.
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:And she sent me on the
right rotary recovery.
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:And then I finally started, she took
me also off work for three months.
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:And then I started on the right
rotary recovery and seeing the
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:right specialist and getting better.
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:Mike: Yeah, that's good for you
for overcoming that challenge.
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:It must have been, I can imagine
particularly, in the first number of
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:weeks and months even, that there were a
lot of questions, a lot of uncertainty,
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:that, you were probably faced with.
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:Is that true?
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:Kelly: Yes.
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:I didn't realize a lot of the symptoms
that I was having, for instance falling,
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:feeling drowsy while I was driving.
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:I didn't know that driving is
highly cognitively draining.
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:I stopped being able to listen to music
because I had sound sensitivity and I had
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:started, getting really bad headaches and
it was because of light sensitivity being
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:under the fluorescent lights at work.
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:So it was really it was really difficult
in the beginning 'cause I didn't know what
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:was wrong and then I was sleeping so much.
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:And the other thing too was I was a
martial artist prior to the car accident
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:and I used to be able to train for two
hours at night after a full day of work.
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:And when I started to go back to
practicing, I found I would get
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:winded and exhausted and have a
pounding headache after two minutes.
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:That was very bizarre.
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:And with being on the road to
recovery and having a fantastic speech
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:therapist and neuro therapist and
seeing a behavioral neurologist and
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:a behavioral optometrist, I learned
different aspects of the brain and my
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:fascination with the brain and getting.
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:Better led to me becoming very
passionate about neuroscience.
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:And a friend of mine when I was telling
her this, said, Hey, you should go
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:and be a neurology nurse practitioner.
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:You'd be really good provider.
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:And I said, oh my gosh,
that's a really great idea.
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:So I did everything I could the next
two years to qualify for a position.
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:And I did get a position and when
I was sitting there taking care of
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:those patients, I realized they were
also struggling with the same things.
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:I struggled with.
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:And so you asked me like,
why did I write the book?
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:After that three months of being off
from work, I was, two weeks before
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:going back to work, I was freaking out.
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:I was like, how am I gonna support
my brain when I go back to work?
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:I don't even know what to do.
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:And, it was hard for me to find strategies
and compensatory tools because they were
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:like in various books and on websites.
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:And I still had a significant amount
of cognitive fatigue, difficulty
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:with memory after reading something.
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:So that endeavor was really hard
and it was very anxiety provoking.
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:And so when I wrote my book, I didn't
want someone to go through that.
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:I wanted them to be able to look in
one spot, find some easy to apply
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:strategies and use the compensatory
tools I used to help me continue
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:to work while my brain healed.
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:Mike: Yeah.
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:No, that's fantastic.
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:No, I think that it it
makes a lot of sense.
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:It's really interesting to hear you
talk about how there were those.
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:Seemingly subtle things, but that
turned out to be very impactful
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:in terms of functioning like you
say, the degree to which something
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:like driving is cognitively taxing.
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:There's so many things it strikes
me that we do during the day
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:that we take for granted from a
cognitive performance perspective
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:because it seems almost automatic.
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:And then as you say, if something comes
along that complicates that somewhat,
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:it's pretty amazing how quickly
things can become much more difficult
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:because of the need to focus in more
intentionally on something and the degree
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:to which we then become more aware of
how tiring something ends up being.
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:Kelly: Exactly.
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:Exactly.
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:And so sometimes like I'll explain to
my patients the neuro fatigue, what
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:happens is that if you have a brand
new car, it has great mileage, takes
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:very little gas to get from A to B,
but if you have an older car, the tires
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:are a little bit flat, the hoses are a
little bit dried out and cracked, it's
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:gonna take more gas to get from A to B.
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:And that's, you still can get from A to
B, but it's gonna be a little bit harder.
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:And so there needs to be that support
if you are having issues with cognitive
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:fatigue to get you from A to B, but
also the an understanding that you
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:may feel slow, you may feel stupid,
but that's not necessarily true.
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:You're still smart.
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:You just have to do things
a little differently.
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:I.
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:Mike: Yeah, I'm sure it's very valuable
for your patients to, and for you as
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:well in terms of being able to relate
to one another and to have the ability
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:based on your own experience to really
empathize with what patients are going
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:through and to coach them in that way.
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:That's very personal.
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:Kelly: Yeah.
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:I really felt like I was a, I was this
ambassador bridging that gap between
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:the patient and healthcare because they
had the symptoms, but had difficulty
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:articulating what the symptoms were
in ways that a healthcare provider
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:would understand to attach that to a
specific test or specialty or referral.
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:And they really did appreciate me being
able to articulate for them on, they would
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:say my husband tries to talk to me and
I am having a hard time with my hearing.
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:I can't hear.
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:And I'll say is the TV on?
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:Are you in the kitchen?
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:Are the people moving around you?
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:And they would say, yes.
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:And I said you have, you may be having
what's called is hearing overload.
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:And that's when you're, he, you no longer
have the ability your brain no longer
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:has the ability to differentiate sounds.
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:And so every sound it
gives 100% attention to.
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:Whereas someone who has a healthy
brain, they can go, the TV's not
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:important to listen to this person
is now I'm gonna focus my, the
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:listening on this person talking.
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:And then just explaining that
and saying, Hey, when you have
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:a conversation with someone.
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:It's not that you can't hear, it's
because you're not able to focus on the
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:sound you're supposed to be hearing.
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:So cut back those sounds.
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:Mike: Yeah.
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:And you
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:Kelly: could do that by turning
off the TV or even implementing
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:technology such as active noise
counseling, earbuds or headphones.
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:Mike: Yeah, that's a really great idea.
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:I really appreciate the metaphors that
you've used, such as the car metaphor.
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:We'll often use that in work with
elderly people in terms of this
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:notion of decreased cognitive reserve
that happens later in life that
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:cause similar kinds of challenges.
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:And and also, that's a great.
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:Tip that you've just mentioned
in terms of using technology like
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:the noise canceling headphones.
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:I'm curious to know I'm sure it's well
detailed in your book, but do you mind
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:sharing with us some other kinds of
strategies that helped you with your
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:own healing journey and that you often
will coach patients in terms of using
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:those strategies as well for themselves?
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:Kelly: The number one thing I'd like to
see people do immediately is journal.
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:Because the journal is going to help
you in several ways, several aspects.
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:It's gonna help you hone down to
where your symptoms are coming from.
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:And then once you know the
symptoms, then you can figure out
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:what's making the symptoms worse.
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:Then once you know that, then you can
apply a strategy and see if that works,
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:journal, if it does, or if it doesn't.
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:And then the journal also allows you
to see how far you've come in your
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:recovery, because sometimes if the re,
if your recovery is prolonged, you know
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:you're going on two years plus it gets
very frustrating, depressing, and sad.
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:But if you can look back in your journal
and see how far you've come, then you
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:can definitely pat yourself on the back.
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:And then the journal is a great way
to process emotions because emotional
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:modulation can be difficult after
a head injury or brain injury.
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:And you can process them in your
journal and if you're not able
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:to get past 'em cope with them,
then you can reach out to friends,
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:your support group a psychologist,
a counselor, get talk therapy.
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:And then the other thing about the
journal is it allows for practicing
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:of mindfulness and gratitude.
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:And both of those two things have been
found to be very helpful in the healing
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:of the brain and, that's one of the
things, when you've had a brain injury,
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:you do tend to get locked in your brain.
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:And when you're locked in your brain,
you're sitting there with, the bullies,
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:telling you negative thoughts and your
remini about this or that, and the journal
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:helps you get out of that so that you
can see where you're at, be more present
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:in the moment, and be grateful for the
things that are occurring now, rather than
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:reminiscing about, oh, that car accident
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:Mike: and
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:Kelly: I can't do this now
and those kinds of things.
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:Really the biggest tool is the
journaling that I would say.
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:Mike: Yeah, that makes a lot of sense
because I can imagine that, for a
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:number of reasons, the emotional toll
of this kind of journey is really, ends
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:up being a big part of what ends up.
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:Creating obstacles to overcome in terms
of healing, not only because of the stress
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:of the disability and the symptoms, but
also because the actual organ that's
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:been affected is where the emotions are
processed, presumably and experienced.
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:So then it ends up becoming
all tied up together.
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:And yeah, it makes a lot of sense
that with what you've described, those
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:practices in terms of helping with the
emotional processing is really critical.
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:And I can totally understand why
that would be an important part of
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:your recommendation for patients.
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:For sure.
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:Yeah.
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:Kelly: Yeah.
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:And then the other I have the five pillars
to your recovery and one of them is sleep.
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:I heard in your last podcast you guys
talked about the importance of sleep.
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:That was great.
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:When you go to sleep, a lot of people
think the brain is not doing anything,
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:but it's actually doing tremendous
amount of work for your brain health.
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:It's cleaning out toxins and waste
and it's modulating those emotions.
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:So when you hear that saying, oh,
let's just sleep on it, it's true.
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:If you sleep on it, your brain processes
your stress and then softens the edges so
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:you can cope with it better the next day.
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:Yeah.
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:And then, while you're sleeping,
your hippocampus which is your memory
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:center that gathers all the new stuff
you've learned in your memories from
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:the day downloads those memories into
the cortex while you're sleeping.
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:If you are short on sleep, I.
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:You short that ability to,
that process of happening.
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:And so your memory won't be so good
unless you're getting that seven
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:to nine hours of recommended sleep.
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:And let's see, I talked about the emotions
and all that stuff, but, so anyway,
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:going back to the five pillar, sorry I'm
very big promo prop, proponent of sleep.
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:So sleep exercise the mindfulness
that we talked about and nutrition.
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:And then the fifth one
is financial wellness.
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:Because having a concussion or
whenever you have an, a chronic
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:illness or a big injury, it can
impact your ability to make, to go
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:to work and continue your income.
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:I do talk about strategies on how to
protect your finances while you're
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:healing and maybe away from work.
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:Mike: Yeah, no, I can imagine how I really
appreciate that you commented on that last
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:part because it's not something that many
people will incorporate into therapeutic
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:program, but it's really important and I
think it makes me consider something I had
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:a thought about just now, which is that
when we were talking about how, an injury
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:like a TBI can really uncover things
that we might normally take for granted
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:in terms of our cognitive workload from
day to day, like driving, for example.
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:That seems automatic, but
when that gets interrupted, I.
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:And we realize, just how taxing it can be.
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:I think another part of that is that
how does that kind of feed into the
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:stigma that arises often when other
people who don't have that experience
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:might put judgment on what they see as
someone who doesn't seem to have a major
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:illness because it's on the inside.
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:Kind of like mental illness in general,
and so I think it would be, so with
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:the financial piece then I can imagine
that there are these kinds of dynamics
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:that would come up with employers
and perhaps insurance adjusters.
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:And so all of that ends up, leading
to most likely risks for a lot of
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:complications in terms of someone's
occupational wellness and their social
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:wellness with relationships perhaps being
strained because say a significant other
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:is feeling as though maybe someone's not
trying hard enough or something like that.
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:I.
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:Kelly: And it, you're right.
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:You hit it on the nail.
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:It is an invisible injury and if you
haven't been through it, you, it's very
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:hard to wrap your own brain around it.
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:And I do have these kind of discussions
with my caregivers and their
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:frustrations, and I explain the reason
why they're not motivated is because
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:that's a higher executive function.
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:Takes a lot of energy to power
and your care, your loved
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:one doesn't have that energy.
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:And so it needs to be broken up.
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:And I give strategies, how does
kickstart it and sustain it.
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:But.
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:I also say that if they are
there, there's gonna be some with
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:some individuals, irritability,
grumpiness, and even bursts of anger.
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:And I explained to my caregivers when
that happens, you have to remember that
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:isn't the person that is doing that.
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:They still love you and they
appreciate all you're doing.
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:Their brain is the one that's saying
those things and doing those things
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:because it's tired, it's overwhelmed,
it's overstimulated, and it needs a break.
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:So if you can balance when you start
seeing those symptoms occur and then
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:take them away from whatever is causing
the overstimulation of the brain,
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:then you can minimize the effects.
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:Maybe just have a grumpy husband
and not one having an angry outburst
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:that they're not un control of.
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:Mike: Yeah, that makes And
that, I'm sorry, go ahead.
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:Kelly: Oh, I was gonna say that.
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:And then that spills into the employment.
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:So the individual will be told by
the doctor, Hey, you're better.
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:You can go back to work.
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:And they go back to work, but they're
not aware, Hey that my job's cognitively
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:of demanding, I'm a knowledge worker.
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:I and I'm unable to sustain that type
of demand for the full eight hours.
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:And so they go back to work.
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:They try to be the same
worker they were before.
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:Highly proficient and enthusiastic.
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:And they end up getting
grumpy and irritable.
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:Maybe they snap at someone
and then this can escalate.
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:Everyone in the office is
like, Hey, Joe's kinda grumpy.
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:What's wrong with him?
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:And then you could find yourself
in HR and be terminated.
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:But if we could send these people back
to work with the tools and strategies
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:that they need to help prevent these
behavioral issues then they'll be able
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:to keep working as a brain heal and
and then stay in healthy in society.
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:Keep your job, you keep your
relationships, you keep your home.
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:Mike: Yeah.
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:That's, yeah, that, that makes sense.
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:I guess it also makes me think again
about that, how that whole dynamic
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:with the emotional toll ends up being.
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:Really relevant factor in terms
of the recovery and how things may
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:or may not be going so well in the
broader kind of social environment
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:and particularly with work.
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:'cause I think these dynamics
can be very subtle but also
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:very kind of self-reinforcing.
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:Because I guess the more that someone's
struggling in fulfilling their role where
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:they previously were high functioning
and feeling as though things were
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:going well and then now not so much and
perhaps still somewhat puzzled about
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:what are the underlying reasons, I can
really see how the importance of just
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:helping them and their family members to
understand and advocate for themselves
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:as much as possible really, so that,
people in their circle can get a sense
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:of that understanding as well, and to
not be as judgmental and to provide
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:them with this space and time and space
that's necessary for that healing.
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:Kelly: Exactly, yes.
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:Mike: Yeah.
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:Are there I'm just curious if as far
as other specific symptoms of TBI, like
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:you've mentioned, the irritability.
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:I guess it strikes me that there's
probably groups of symptoms, like the
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:emotional symptoms and then perhaps
more of what we might call somatic
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:symptoms, like actual headache.
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:I'm just wondering if you could
give us a rundown of those
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:symptoms and some strategies for
managing those specific symptoms.
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:Kelly: Yeah.
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:I think, let's see, I guess my favorite
symptom to help with I've spoken about
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:a little bit is sound sensitivity.
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:And and the aspect, what it is that
the brain doesn't have the energy to
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:put filters to, to filter out sound.
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:Sounds can sound very loud.
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:To a brain injury survivor, normal
everyday sounds, the refrigerator
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:popping on the fax machine, a
phone ringing a conversation.
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:The conversations to me sound like
people are yelling at each other
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:sometimes, especially when I'm really
tired or really trying to focus.
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:And just realizing that.
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:And then things that you can implement,
like what I talked about is utilization
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:of active noise counseling technology.
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:There are earbuds and headphones where
they'll connect to your phone on your
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:app and you could actually control the
amount of the noise counseling levels.
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:So if you're in a
conversation with someone.
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:You can put it down to maybe three or
four, but say you're flying on an airplane
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:and the air jet's really loud you can bump
it up to a 10, and that way you're not,
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:you're applying external filter for your
brain and then saving the energy it would
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:normally expend to power those filters.
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:Mike: Okay.
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:Yeah, that makes a lot
of, sorry, go ahead.
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:Yeah.
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:Kelly: Oh, I was gonna
say light sensitivity.
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:If you're having headaches you may
be having some light sensitivity
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:and the like can be from outside.
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:I've had people difficulty going outside.
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:They wear hats and
sunglasses to cope with that.
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:It's been helpful.
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:But in your normal office work
environment, they utilize fluorescent
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:lighting to light buildings and offices,
and that can be very hard on the brain
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:because that light's not constant.
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:It's flickering.
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:You may not see it.
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:Your brain perceives it as such.
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:And when you work with computers laptops,
tablets phones, they're sending out light.
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:And that the light from that is
is blue light and that can you're
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:sensitive to blue light that can
be irritating, exhausting to the
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:brain and then cause headaches.
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:And so with those I recommend
you could wear dark glasses.
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:If you're in the office, you could,
there are fluorescent light covers that
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:you can put over fluorescent lights.
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:You could ask your employer to dim the
light or just turn it off and use concent
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:lighting light bulbs instead, right with
a warm glow rather than a pure white.
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:Is helpful.
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:And then turn turning down lights
at home creating a, a quiet
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:cozier type environment at home.
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:So when you are at home,
you can really rest.
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:So that's some of the things that I
recommend for the light sensitivity.
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:If you're having difficulty with
reading or and again, headaches that
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:can read or dizziness, difficulty
maintaining a balance, you really
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:should have your eyes evaluated.
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:And of course, everyone starts off
with the optometrist and optometrists.
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:Make sure that your eye clarity is
good, that you see things clearly.
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:But if you're having double vision.
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:Or dizziness, you may wanna consider
getting a referral to an ophthalmologist
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:and they can if you have double
vision, they can prescribe prism
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:glasses to help correct with that.
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:And then there's behavioral optometrists.
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:Now they, look to see how well
the eyes function together.
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:And if you have a misalignment with
your vision, that can cause headaches.
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:It could cause neck pain 'cause
you're tilting your head either
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:way to kinda level out that vision.
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:It's called binocular vision dysfunction.
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:And if you have that, some of the
symptoms are neck pain headaches visual
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:difficulty decreased reading tolerance
decreased screen time tolerance.
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:Anxie did I say anxiety?
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:Those type of things that you
would not put with your eyes, you
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:So yeah, if you're having difficulty
with the reading and the memory and
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:you're feeling anxious, you have
headaches, get your eyes checked out.
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:Mike: Yeah, no, thanks for
summarizing all of that.
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:And I think, again, it's almost,
it comes back in some sense to what
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:we've been talking about the function
that our body allows us that seems
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like the seeing and the hearing.
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:And it's not when, it's not until
things get off balance that way that
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:we either get sensitive to light and
or sound, that we have to think more
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:carefully about that and adjust how we're
interacting with the environment in order
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:But I think, yeah, in particular, it
makes a lot of sense given how much we
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of what we're doing at work these days.
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:A lot of folks, in terms of just.
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:Recognizing, again, see, it strikes me
that the education piece is so critical
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:because then the more that people
understand about what they're suffering
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:from, the more that they're then able to
get help for it, but also advocate for
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:themselves and to educate others who may
not have the same degree of awareness.
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:Kelly: Exactly.
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:And that's where that journaling comes
in and pinpointing your symptoms and
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:So say if you go to your doctor
and you say, I have dizziness.
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:Dizziness is non-specific symptom and
lots of things can cause dizziness.
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:But if you go to your doctor
and you say, I have dizziness.
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:Every time I scroll up and down
on my phone, I watch action movies
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:where things are flying by, then
the doctor's gonna go, oh, they're
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:having difficulty with eye tracking.
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:So I'm gonna send them to a neuro
therapist to help with the eye tracking.
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:So see how important it is to really
get down to the nitty gritty to
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:help your provider understand what
you're feeling, and and then send
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:you to the right therapist or.
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:Specialists to, to take
care of that symptom.
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:Another thing is patients will say,
I'm dizzy, and if I pinpoint it,
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:I'll say or they'll say they're
dizzy and their legs feel weak.
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:And which is like, why would
they have these symptoms?
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:And what they're describing
is dise equilibrium.
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:And that is because the connection between
the feet, the communication between the
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:feet and the brain have been knocked off.
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:Balance.
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:And so that's why they feel weak in
the legs, because they're just not
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:getting this solid co confirmation
from their muscles and stuff.
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:And then they're dizzy because
they're getting misfiring
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:of information to the brain.
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:If you're, if you've injured your neck
and you have whiplash and your neck
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:is not aligned, that's gonna make it
difficult to control your headaches
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:and your symptoms of dizziness Also.
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:It's just, it's really it's it's really
a whole, it's a generalized injury that
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:requires a holistic approach in care.
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:A lot of my patients will
say, why can't I just see one
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:provider just to take care of me?
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:And I'll say 'cause the
brain's complicated.
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:Yeah.
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:And people specialize in various issues
of the brain, and you just have to go
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:and see them to create the whole picture
of your healing and your recovery.
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:I'll often say, your speech
therapist is a piece of the puzzle.
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:Your physical medicine doctor
is a piece of the puzzle.
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:I'm a piece of your puzzle.
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:In neurology, your general practitioners,
the piece of puzzle, you put 'em
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:all together and that makes the
picture of your plan of care.
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:Mike: Yeah, I think that's an
important point to emphasize,
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:but I really appreciate that.
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:'cause I think, yeah, it's important
for people again, to just not be
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:afraid to advocate for themselves
and to request the referrals and
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:if necessary, the second opinions.
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:And just to be able to talk to people who
have the expertise to be able to recognize
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:the symptoms and make the diagnosis.
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:But as you say, it starts with just
having that inventory of the symptoms.
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:And I really love the idea of journaling.
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:I think it's a good idea in general for
when, for people who go to see their
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:physician for whatever reason, to have
to bring something in writing and just
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:have something that they can refer to.
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:'cause it's often hard when you
go to, I know personally you go
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:to see my doctor and then it's
jumbled up a little in terms of the
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:chronology of what's been happening.
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:And so to have things written down
ahead of time is a really good strategy,
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:especially I guess in the context of a
condition that's already causing some
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:difficulty with concentration and memory.
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:Kelly: Exactly.
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:In fact I brought a gift for your
listeners, if they wanna go to
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:my website, kelly tuttle.org.
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:I've created a I call it a
Stressless medical sheet.
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:And on that sheet is the exact
questions your doctor's gonna
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:need to make a diagnosis.
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:So it's called old car.
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:That's what we use in medicine.
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:So the on the onset the, duration of the
time that you've had it, the location of
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:the the pain or whatever you're bringing
in, the characteristics, what you know.
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:Is it a stab?
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:Is it a stabbing headache?
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:Is it a tight headache?
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:What makes it worse?
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:What makes it better?
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:And have you had any treatment?
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:Now my form will walk you
through that information.
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:You fill it out, you can, ans you
can tell the doctor right away.
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:I've had dizziness.
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:It's worse when I'm
under fluorescent lights.
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:It's better when I get good sleep.
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:And I'm sorry, brain fart.
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:Mike: That's okay.
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:Yeah, I know.
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:Kelly: And let's see here.
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:Okay, we'll just leave at that Is.
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:On the form.
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:It also has space for you to
write notes and when your next
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:any recommendations, and then when
your next follow up appointment is.
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:'cause you should be, have a follow
up before you, you leave the office.
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:Mike: Definitely.
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:That's awesome.
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:I really appreciate that.
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:I'm gonna use that for myself and
that's fantastic and generous of
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:you to make that available for
viewers and listeners, I would
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:encourage everyone to check that out.
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:Su super interesting because
I think this is where, this
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:It's making sure that your
provider has the best information
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:possible to be able to help you
in the best way possible, right?
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:And so if it's disorganized
and vague, then it becomes more
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:challenging on the diagnostic side,
but the more details, the better.
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:And if it's written, it just helps
people to be able to present that
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:in a concise form that's gonna
be helpful for their provider.
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:And then, by.
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:By definition for themselves really.
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:And also just again, that point
that you make about making sure
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:that, other qualified, professionals
as necessary become involved.
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:It's super interesting to hear your
story about how, specific kinds
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:of clinicians, like behavioral
optometrists become involved.
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:I hadn't naturally heard of that
particular specialty until now, but
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:I can see how it's really important
in these specific areas for sure.
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:Kelly: Yes.
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:And then, and that's the, I can
speak to US medicine but here in
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:the US doctors and providers have
a limited time with their patients.
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:Some of them only 10 minutes, and it
could take you 10 minutes just to get your
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:vital signs done by the medical assistant.
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:So very little time.
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:And and they're under a lot of
pressure to stay on time and see many
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:patients in a short period of time.
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:So if you can come in and be concise
and have everything ready to go, you
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:can take advantage of that little
time and get the most out of it.
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:Mike: Yeah, definitely.
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:No, that's really helpful.
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:I'm curious to know, there, there may well
be people listening and watching who have
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:struggled with or maybe are continuing to
struggle with these kinds of challenges.
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:What would be some, perhaps some messages
of hope and encouragement that you might
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:be able to offer people who themselves
are struggling or that have loved ones
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:or acquaintances that they know are
struggling with these kinds of challenges?
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:Kelly: Everyone's recovery is
different as it's different and
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:unique as their personality.
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:And so their treatment and their
symptoms will be di different
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:And then the recovery doesn't.
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:I know like a lot of my neurology
colleagues would say you'll see the
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:most improvement within two years.
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:And then that what the patient
hears is if I'm not better in two
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:years, I'm never gonna get better.
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:And and just to realize that
you will, you can get better.
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:There is this new information coming
out about neuroplasticity and maybe your
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:brain won't be the same after your injury.
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:Most likely it won't.
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:Because it's so delicate and the anate
processes that occur that can be knocked
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:offline with a stroke or a concussion.
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:But if you support the health
of your brain, you're gonna
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:support neuroplasticity, which is
rewiring around dead cells, dead
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:tissue, scar tissue in the brain.
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:And if you encourage that with
learning, being social exercising,
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:getting that sleep, eating a a healthy,
low fat, anti-inflammatory diet then
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:you're gonna encourage that process.
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:And over time you will see incremental
improvements as the years go by.
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:Mike: Yeah, no, I appreciate that.
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:It's probably important to give
people, or to encourage people to
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:give themselves the permission to
pay attention to self-care as well.
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:Because there's probably an inclination
for people to feel like they just
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:need to keep working harder or keep,
adding stress to themselves in terms
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:of their expectations to get where to
where they were, perhaps pre-injury.
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:But the self-care piece and allowing
that therapeutic space and time
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:strikes me as really critical.
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:Kelly: Exactly.
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:That's what I do a lot of education on the
fact that the brain and the nurse heal.
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:They take a lot longer to heal
and they take their own time.
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:So there's nothing you can
do to speed up the process.
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:Unlike if you sprain your ankle, you could
do your physical therapy, you can ice.
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:You could be really good at your
stretches, but with a brain, it's
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:more like you're just gonna support
optimal health and have patience.
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:Mike: I'm curious, what about the
role of creative pursuits, anything
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:that someone might be interested in,
perhaps as part of a self-care routine?
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:Do you think creativity has a role
and is that something that you might
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:suggest for patients to consider?
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:Kelly: Oh, definitely.
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:And this goes this I usually
put under mindfulness.
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:So when before my head injury,
I did the martial arts.
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:And when you do a kata, you were
practicing my mindfulness because you're
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:thinking about the move, how your body
feels, you're really in the moment.
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:When I had my car crash, I lost that
practice and I had to discover it again.
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:And fortunately I talked to a counselor
and they recommended adult coloring.
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:And through adult coloring, I was
able to learn how to sit and do
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:my mind, my mindfulness practice.
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:And yes, the arts are perfect.
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:Listening to music is great for the brain.
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:Learning how to play an instrument
crafting, whether that's knitting or
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:creating art or even going to a museum.
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:And looking at the art there and
thinking about it, all of that
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:stuff helps the brain grow and heal.
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:Mike: Yeah, for sure.
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:I'm curious if you have, as usual for
viewers and listeners, the content here
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:is intended for educational purposes only
and not so much as advice for individuals.
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:We would encourage you to see your own
individual providers for that kind of
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:specific advice, but I'm just curious in
general terms as an educational piece,
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:if if someone's struggling with certain
symptoms or functional problems if they've
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:recently had some sort of a concussion
or other type of TBI, are there any
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:things that you might, provide them with
in terms of just information that might
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:help them through that difficult time?
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:Kelly: Yes.
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:So gen definitely keeping your
general practitioner in the loop
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:and letting them know what's going
on because as you are healing, your
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:symptoms can change too, right?
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:Yeah.
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:Especially if you've had an injury
to the neck or the shoulder,
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:that pain will cover up symptoms.
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:And so you really need to do a
check-in with your provider I
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:recommend follow up to be two weeks
after the injury, the head injury.
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:And then a month after that, and then
every three months after that, sorry.
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:Mike: Sorry, I have some background
noise outside the window here.
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:I don't, I apologize for the interruption.
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:That's, I'm gonna just mute
myself while you're talking.
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:Sorry.
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:Carry on.
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:Kelly: And then follow up every three
months and then for six months and then
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:every six months or a year, and then every
year after, because things can change.
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:And I think that answers your question.
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:Mike: Definitely.
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:Yeah, it does.
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:Sorry.
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:And I'll edit this and make
it so that it's smooth here.
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:So sorry about this background noise.
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:I'm like, it's there's a window here and
there's some, must be some construction
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:that's just started out there.
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:So sorry about that.
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:That's okay.
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:We'll just wait till it pauses
and then try and get rolling.
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:I can, I'm pretty good at
editing this kind of thing out
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:and making it appear smooth.
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:I'm just gonna mute myself here
for a minute until it stops.
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:Maybe I'll just see if I can step
out and ask them to stop in a minute.
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:If it doesn't stop.
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:Hi.
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:Sorry about that.
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:It looks like they're gonna just hold off
for a few minutes here when we finish up.
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:So just trying.
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:Yeah, sorry about that.
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:We had a little interruption there, but I.
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:Yeah, no.
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:What you were just saying, Kelly was
interesting to me as well because
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:it reminded me of something I was
gonna ask about earlier on in our
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:conversation, which is the issue of pain.
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:We haven't really talked about that, but
as you said earlier, because it's such a
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:general kind of a disorder that involves
many different physiological systems,
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:obviously pain is a big part of that.
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:And so I'm just curious, what would be
some of your comments regarding, the
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:common experiences of pain, perhaps
beyond headaches and maybe neck pain
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:and also some strategies on how you
help patients to manage that pain.
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:Kelly: I don't, I do have some
experience managing the headache portion.
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:But other joint issues, I
really rely on physical therapy.
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:To help.
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:To help with it.
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:And then I do recommend acupuncture
for both headaches and neck issues.
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:And and then massage therapy too.
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:But the key, the, the really interesting
thing about headaches is that when you see
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:a headache specialist and they prescribe
medication, now they can prescribe
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:you with an abortive medication to get
rid of the headache such as Imitrex.
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:And then they can prescribe
medications that you take on the
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:daily called preventative medications.
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:To help.
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:And the goal of that is to lower your
headache frequency from down 30%.
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:That's not a lot if you're having
headaches most days of the week.
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:And what I have seen that is
that if you're a patient that's
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:not willing to do the lifestyle.
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:Aspect of managing of
headaches and chronic pain.
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:It doesn't matter what medications you
take, it's gonna, it's not gonna be great.
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:Yeah.
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:It's not gonna be what you want.
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:And so I'm really a big proponent
that you really need to get the
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:seven to nine hours of sleep.
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:If you have sleep apnea, you need to be
100% compliant with your CPOP machine.
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:You've gotta exercise in
whatever form that may be.
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:It could be chair yoga to
going outside and walking.
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:And you've got to be managing your
stress and practicing mindfulness.
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:And your finances, need to be healthy
too, because if you're worried about
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:your bills, it's gonna be really
hard to control chronic pain issues.
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:And then nutrition, you really wanna
be like on a anti-inflammatory ed.
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:Diet.
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:So you wanna be avoiding things
that have preservatives in them.
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:Dairy products are highly inflammatory.
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:And so you really wanna just eat closer to
the ground to get that the nutrition more
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:of a trench and nutritionally di dense.
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:Diet.
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:Rather than something that is like
potato chips, it is low on the nu
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:nutritional value as compared to
the potato having a baked potato.
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:And so I often tell my patients
it's best to eat the orange rather
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:than drink the orange juice.
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:The farther away from the factory you get
and the closer to the ground the better.
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:And that can also, that's also
very helpful with pain control.
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:Yeah.
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:So really staying away from processed
foods, really staying away from
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:anything that's in the package.
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:If you can just eat it fresh and, and
that's not always easy, especially
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:if you are trying to work and you
only have so much energy, just do
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:the best you, the best that you can.
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:Mike: Yeah, definitely.
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:Try to, at the grocery store, try to
stick to the perimeter as much as possible
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:and not so much to the middle halls.
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:Yes.
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:Or corridors.
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:Yeah, exactly.
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:Yeah, no, I love that educational piece
around lifestyle factors for management
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:of pain, chronic pain in particular.
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:'cause I think there are a lot of
potential pitfalls when it comes to
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:prescription medication for pain.
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:And we wanna just try and help people to
avoid getting, dependent on medications
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:for pain after any kind of injury.
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:But particularly TBI for sure.
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:Kelly: Exactly.
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:And if you're not sleeping well to to
seek care from your general practitioner
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:to help you with that sleep, let
them know you're not sleeping well.
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:I if, if your sleep is being disrupted
by neck pain or back pain or you just,
731
:have fragmented sleep or you wake up
in the middle of the night and you're
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:unable to go to sleep for two or three
hours, they can help you with that.
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:And then if they get to a point
where they're, it doesn't,
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:what they're recommending isn't
helping ask to see a psychiatrist.
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:Because people don't realize that
psychiatrists are great at med
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:management and sleep management.
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:So those are the people you want
to see when you need medication
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:management for mental health.
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:If you've got a tricky anxiety or
depression mix, it's difficult to control.
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:Or if you're having difficulty.
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:Difficulty with sleep, that is
a referral you wanna ask for.
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:Mike: Yeah, definitely.
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:I would echo that recommendation
as a psychiatrist.
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:I know a lot of colleagues who have
who, who look after people who've
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:had traumatic brain injuries,
and you're absolutely right.
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:I think because of that overlap with
the emotional piece and the cognitive
747
:piece that we've been talking about, it
really does make sense to, if necessary,
748
:to have a psychiatrist involved.
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:So definitely agree with that one.
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:That's, oh, yeah.
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:And the behavioral
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:Kelly: aspect too.
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:Mike: Therapy wise.
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:Yeah.
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:Kelly: Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:The psychiatrists are that's
who I send my patients to,
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:who had difficulty with sleep.
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:The mood or the behavior.
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:Very helpful.
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:I love you guys
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:Mike: yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:Let's just, we're running a bit short
on time, but I'm curious, just maybe
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:if you don't mind just expanding on
a little bit on that behavioral piece
766
:in terms of the relevance there.
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:And not only perhaps in the sense of
problematic repercussions of A TBI,
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:but also on the therapeutic side.
769
:Kelly: So you can have, so what I've seen
in my own practice is a bursts of anger.
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:Arguing.
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:Arguing so they get stuck in
this loop of arguing, this is
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:why I wanna do it motivation.
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:So maybe not wanting to get up
in the morning to take a shower.
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:These things are exhausting
for these people.
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:And or just to help out
around the house that.
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:Can be helped with a psychiatrist if it
needs to be treated with medication as
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:but also counseling family and counseling
to help with other non-pharmaceutical
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:recommendations and therapies.
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:Mike: Yeah, for sure.
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:It makes sense.
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:It makes sense.
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:So that's an important part
of the overall treatment plan.
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:That's great, Kelly.
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:Thanks so much.
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:I'm curious where can viewers
and listeners find more about
786
:your content or your practice if
they're interested in connecting
787
:and learning more about your work?
788
:Kelly: You can go to kelly tuttle.org.
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:That's my website.
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:You can find my book.
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:I have an online program.
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:I'll be publishing soon.
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:I have a YouTube channel myself.
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:It's Brain Loving Advocate.
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:Kelly Tu Kelly Tuttle, brain
Loving Advocate, Kelly Tuttle.
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:And I'm also on Instagram Facebook for
kind of just short spurts of information.
797
:The best place to go is to my YouTube
if you want more of my content.
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:And my book is also on Audible, if
you're having a hard time reading.
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:And yeah.
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:Oh, and I have a Substack, so if you go
to my website, then I'm gonna be creating
801
:more content through Substack too.
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:Mike: That's awesome.
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:That's great.
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:It's great that you have
the audio book available.
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:I'm a big fan of Audible.
806
:I think it's a great way to access
books and so yeah, really encourage
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:viewers and listeners to check
out all of what you have to offer.
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:It's so great and we will put
links to all of that, what you just
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:mentioned Kelly, we'll, for viewers
and listeners, we're gonna put links
810
:to all of that in the show notes.
811
:So I would really encourage you
to check out Kelly's content.
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:And again, Kelly, thank you so much for
spending your valuable time with us today.
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:Really appreciate your expertise and
you sharing your personal journey.
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:And I'm just so impressed with
how you've translated that.
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:It's really inspiring how you've
translated that into all of this
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:productivity and this content and
how you're, you retrained and you're
817
:helping out your patients now who have
had similar challenges just to really
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:help them to have the best health and
wellness possible, even though they've
819
:had these significant challenges.
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:So thanks very much.
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:Kelly: Thank you for having me.
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:It's been a great conversation.
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:Mike: Super.
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:Okay, take care.
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:Thanks again.
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:Bye for now.